Showing posts with label world. Show all posts
Showing posts with label world. Show all posts

Dec 2, 2011

Female genital mutilation


I had this other blog, which I never used, that I was gonna use for these more serious entries about issues that I find very important to bring up. But I only wrote this one entry on that blog and... well, it died. I still want to write these "issue" entries, but I decided I can just as well write them here, since this blog is about my interests and these issues I feel are important. So here's the first. Rough subject, but important.

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Female Genital Mutilation (FGM), also called Female Circumcision, is a cultural procedure, where female genitals are cut either completely or partly away. This is done to girls 0-15 years old, before puberty. It is considered an important rite of passage from a girl to a woman. There are no medical reasons or health benefits why this procedure is done.

There are three major types of Female Genital Mutilation.
In Clitoridectomy, also called "sunna mutilation", only the clitoris is removed.   
Excision is the removal of the clitoris and scraping off the inner lips (labia minora). The outer lips (labia majora) are often kept uncut but may be cut away too.
In infibulation the outer and/or inner lips are cut and repositioned to create a covering seal for the vaginal opening. In this case clitoris is not always removed because it is sealed inside the skin. All that is left of the female genitalia, is a small hole, the size of the top of the pinkie. This allows urine and menstrual blood to pass. (Pictures) In this case the woman has to be cut open again for intercourse and childbirth and often sealed shut again, sometimes several times.

The prodecure is often done in very unhygienic circumstances where the girl has a high risk of infection and heavy bleeding and no help near if something goes wrong. The procedure is usually done with a blunt razor blade, scissors or a piece of glass and no disinfectants. It is considered highly shameful to show any sign of fear or pain during the prodecure, even when it's done without any local anaesthesia.

After the excruciatingly painful operation is over, the wound is sewn shut and the girls legs are tied together so the stitches wont rip. The stitches are often thorns, catgut or thread. Urinating after the cutting is so painful that the girl often looses her consciousness. It is also common that the stitches might rip during urinating or while sleeping and the girl has to be sewn again, which starts the whole process of healing from the very beginning.

FGM has been a custom for much longer than any religion of today has been around. Still FGM is often associated with Islam, though the Quran has nothing to say about it and it is practised in countries of several different religions. Still some religious leaders recommend or even command women's genitals to be cut.

In several cultures women are considered impure and unfit to marry if they are not cut. The female genitalia is considered unsightly and dirty without being cut. It is believed that if genitals are not cut, they keep growing until they dangle between ones knees. Women are believed to have a crazed, uncontrollable sex-drive that makes them cheat on their husbands and to sleep with everyone, if not cut. Uncut women are also believed to masturbate constantly and turn lesbian.
In reality FGM causes irreversible life-long health risks and creates unnecessary dangers in child birth. Intercourse is not sexually enjoyable for cut woman, but can be extremely painful. Even urinating and cleaning oneself is uncomfortable, slow and painful.

Female Genital Mutilation is still happening all across the world. It is counted that over 6000 women and girls are still being cut daily. Though whole governments, different health programs and educational agenda's are fighting against the tradition and the support for FGM is slowly dropping. There are countries and areas where FGM has been stopped completely.

The education of women is an important step on ending FGM. Helping people to understand how FGM  does not actually help or prevent anything, but only harms women physically and mentally. It is important to make people realize that it does not help make the lives of women any better.

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Oct 16, 2011

The wide world

There are some stories that you hear, watch or read, and you'll never be able to look at the world exactly the same before. The ones that awaken. I'd like to share some of the things that have done that to me and I'd love to hear more. We are all such a small part of this huuuge, wide world.

Here's my list. I added only books this time because I have such a bad memory I don't remember all my favourite documents by name and most of my favourite movies of this kind are made from my favourite books. I truly recommend all these books. These stories make you think, widen your horizon, teach about different cultures and make you feel such an awe for these people. None of them just gave up and surrendered to their destiny. They all fought for a better life and now we can read their stories. ♥

1) Sold by Zana Muhsen
   A true story of a young British girl who was sold to be a wife of a boy she had never met to a country she had never been in(Yemen).
2) Infidel by Ayaan Hirsi Ali 
   A very eye-opening and thrilling true story of a Somali girl who was raised in a muslim culture and who escaped an arranged marriage and became a fighter for human rights
3) Slave by Mende Nazer
   A true story of a Sudan girl who was taken from her village and sold as a slave. As incredible it seems, this happened just about 10 years ago.
4) The tears of my soul by Kim Hyun Hee
   A true story of a North Korean girl who was trained to be an assassin
5) The white masai by Corinne Hoffmann
   A true story of a young Swiss woman who traveled to Kenya, fell in love and moved to a Masai tribe.
6) 3,096 days by Natascha Kampusch
   A true story of a German girl who was kidnapped as a child. And how she survived her captivity.
7) Only a daughter by Sarita Skagnes 
   A true story of a Indian girl who had the courage to fight the destiny and be more than just a daughter.
8) Wild Swans: Three daughters of China by Jung Chang
   The history of China in the eyes of the women of three very different generations.
9-10) Kiterunner/Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaleid Hosseini 
   I had to add this one to the list though they're not true stories. The books are heart wrenching stories based on the reality of life in Afghanistan.

...And yeah, these stories show, that no matter where we are from, we're not that different. We all want freedom, human rights, love and peace.

I am getting my fourth book shelve tomorrow, the other three are so full I really need it. I have a few books, haha!