Apr 10, 2012

What the future brings?

My (step)sister has a daughter. She is 15 months old and the light of our whole family's life. She's always smiling, hugging and playing. She never cries. she's a sweetheart. ♥

Her mother is a beautiful blue eyed Finnish blonde with a heartwarming smile. Her father is a handsome very dark skinned, black haired Nigerian. They both adore their daughter. Her hair has started to grow, it's dark brown and curly and soft as silk. Her eyes are almost black, they are so dark, she seems to notice everything. She's starting to speak, when she learns more, she's gonna be  multilingual. Her mother teaches her Finnish and English. Her father teaches her English and Igbo.

She's like an adorable mix of her mother and father. Her nose is her fathers, her mouth is her mothers, the tone of her skin is like milk chocolate. She is learning to walk.



Last week my sister and her daughter were coming to see my stepmom and father for easter. They were coming by a bus to the Helsinki train station. My sister was pushing the stroller where her daughter was sitting. There was a group of 20-something drunk men on the way. They let her pass but stared after her.
One of them yelled: "Is that a niggerbaby with you?"

... She is 15 months old. And now it starts?

I am so scared for her. What she will have to go trough. Only because some people are so fucking stupid! She's the most beautiful, wonderful, gentle little creature you could imagine and she most probably has to listen to words like that for the rest of her life.

Last summer a Finnish actor, Chike Ohanwe who has a Nigerian parent, was attacked while he was at a beach, sunbathing. There are more and more news about attacks of racist nature in Finland. A few months ago a man shot an immigrant in his workplace, a restaurant. After the "true finns"-party won the parliamentary election a year ago, racism has shown a new and dangerous face to the public.

Suddenly it seems it's completely okay to bash people, to call them names, to threaten them, even their lives. Members of parliament have openly said racist comments, they belong to extreme right-wing groups. It's given a permission for those angry racists who have before stayed quiet, to come out and yell, offend and even hurt. The horrible thing is, that these people seem to get no punishments. It's a horrible example for those who seem to have waited for a rolemodel like that.
Then there's Anders Breivik. When is that going to happen again in another country? With people like the "basic finns" saying that it's okay to hate those different from "us"... us usually being white straight men? Some people actually dare to admire Breivik. Sick!

I hope the Northern Europe is not sliding into the hands of racists and extreme right-wing people. On the other hand over a million people (there are 6 million of us in all) voted in the Finnish presidential election this year for a gay president. So there is hope. ♥

But as long as a 15 month old baby can be called such names without anyone doing anything about it, without batting an eye, there is something terribly, horribly wrong with the people in this country.

3 comments:

  1. What?! I don't believe it! Calling names at the lil' cutie already?! Argh! Idiots! Jerks! DX

    Remember me telling you that my brother is a godfather of his friend's adopted son? His friend's son is lil' African cutie. <3 *ahem* Anyway, my mom have been worrying in my brother's (and his friend's) behalf because lil' boy just started the kindergarten. She worrying that the other kids are going to tease him because of the skin colour. Well, thankfully, the kids are more accepting than the adults.

    Still, we *are* still worried how some adults/parents will react to the boy - in time. Narrow-minded adults cause more trouble than the kids. At least, we can teach the kids to behave and treat others kindly: adults - some yes, some not.

    *sighs*

    Sometimes, I'm a shame to be Finn... when jerks like "Basic Finns" keeps saying nasty things before even considering what they are saying. They are giving the people of the world the wrong image about the rest of us!! T-T

    Things are looking bad, indeed...

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    1. Yup, I cannot understand people who can call names a baby, a small child. Sick. >.<

      I remember you telling about your brothers godson. =D It's SO GOOD to hear that the kids are so accepting. Kids usually are, they don't care about unimportant things if their parents don't teach them othervice. ^__^

      The basic finns are really horrible. It's incredible how they can say such racist, hateful things and get no punishment. =(

      ... nothing to do with this issue but: I miss youuuu, we have to see soon, hihihi ^_^

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  2. Ugh. u__u
    That's all I have to say.

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